Summer Is For Fun!


School's Out! Well, almost.

When I was a kid summer had a lot of fun to it. That's not all that strange when we consider that it's called "summer vacation." Oh, we had chores, and I worked during my teenage years. Yet, there was always plenty of time for swimming, camping, playing outdoors, riding our bicycles, and more. Today for many students the "vacation" part of summer has been lost. The pressure to perform motivates many to keep their kids working all summer. Schools also often burden students with summer packets that turn into busy work more than keeping students on track.

I'm all for growing and learning, and that meant when our boys were small there were summer books to read, and once they hit their teen years summer jobs. Yet, it was still summer. Kids need some down time. They aren't little adults, and to expect them to maintain an adult pace is completely unrealistic.

The Bible cautions us not to “exasperate” our children (Colossians 3:21), and unnecessary pressure definitely contributes to this. Working 40-50 hours a week can be exhausting as an adult. To place such a schedule on an 8 year old is thoroughly unfair.

I'd encourage you to try to strike a healthy balance this summer. Camps can often be a necessary part of child care for many parents, but be sure you're incorporating a healthy dose of fun. Fun isn't expensive, it just takes a little time and planning. When I ask my sons what they loved the most about summer they list camping in the yard at the top of the list, and it was free. We would set a tent up about 15 feet away from our home, and stay up late playing games, snacking, and making up fun stories.

So go for a walk, head to the local park, throw a ball, and fire up the grill. With a little thought you'll make it a summer to remember.

Following the Son,
James A Williams

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